I try to remain calm and explain how my ex is spreading rumors about me to try and damage my reputation. I’m hoping to clarify things and set the record straight.

Some of them listen to me and empathize, but I notice how others change the subject out of discomfort. One friend suspects that I’m trying to “smear” my ex, and a close friend even told me, “You should both move on, this isn’t good for the kids.”